Missing the Meal: How Fear Makes Us Miss Our Moments

Image generated using AI by Athena Rocar I’ve been rewatching Stargate SG-1, the classic sci-fi show that ran from 1997 to 2007. If you're unfamiliar, it's about a group of humans traveling through a network of portals (Stargates) to other worlds. They explore new civilizations, make friends, and usually end up helping those civilizations fight off a group of power-hungry alien overlords. You know, classic sci-fi stuff. In the episode Meridian, Dr. Daniel Jackson gets exposed to a lethal dose of radiation while saving a planet. As he’s dying, his friends come to say their goodbyes. But then something unexpected happens: a mysterious woman named Oma Desala appears and offers him a choice: die, or ascend to a higher plane of existence and live as energy among the Ancients. Very on-brand for sci-fi spirituality. Oma often drops Zen-like wisdom, and one phrase in particular jumped out at me: “If you immediately know the candlelight is fire, the meal was cooked a long time ago.” Tha...